The recent suicide of a man in Agra due to alleged harassment by his wife is heartbreaking. It’s painful to see such incidents, where someone feels so trapped and helpless in their own life that they see no other way out. But suicide is never the solution. Life is unpredictable, and no matter how bad things seem, situations do change. It’s just a matter of finding the strength to endure and navigate through difficult times.
Suicide: A Permanent End to a Temporary Problem
Every problem—whether in relationships, career, or personal life—comes with a possibility of resolution. It may take time, support, or a change in perspective, but there is always a way forward. Ending one’s life means cutting off all future possibilities of happiness, growth, and even revenge in some cases. Instead of choosing such an extreme step, one must explore all other options—seeking support, walking away from toxic relationships, or finding new meaning in life.
The Changing Nature of Marriage and Relationships
It’s sad to see how marriages and relationships are evolving in today’s world. What was once seen as a lifelong bond is now often treated as a transactional arrangement, where personal interests take precedence over love, commitment, and mutual respect.
1. In-Laws: The Number One Reason for Divorce in Bharat
One of the biggest contributors to marital discord in Bharat is the interference of in-laws. Whether it’s the husband’s family trying to control the wife or the wife’s family influencing her against the husband, these external pressures create unnecessary conflicts. Instead of letting the couple figure out their own dynamics, parents and relatives often impose their expectations, leading to constant arguments, misunderstandings, and ultimately, broken marriages.
2. Parents’ Role in Raising Emotionally Resilient Individuals
Parents play a huge role in shaping how their children handle relationships and challenges. Unfortunately, many parents fail to teach their children emotional resilience, self-reliance, and conflict resolution. They either overprotect them or burden them with unrealistic expectations, making them ill-equipped to deal with marital struggles. Teaching children from a young age that life is not always fair, that people change, and that relationships require patience and effort can help them handle problems more maturely.
3. Marriage is No Longer About Companionship, But Convenience
Earlier, couples stayed together because they truly valued companionship. Today, many marriages are built on convenience—financial security, social status, or just avoiding loneliness. When things get difficult, instead of working through problems, people choose to walk away. While there’s nothing wrong with ending a toxic relationship, many marriages end over trivial issues that could have been resolved with understanding and compromise.
4. Unrealistic Expectations and Social Media Influence
Social media has further complicated relationships by setting unrealistic standards. People constantly compare their relationships with filtered, picture-perfect lives they see online, leading to dissatisfaction. Instead of appreciating what they have, they focus on what’s missing, creating unnecessary stress in their marriage.
How to Cope with Relationship Stress Without Losing Hope
- Seek Support, But the Right Kind – Talking to a friend or therapist can help, but avoid people who worsen your situation by fueling anger or victimhood.
- Practice Meditation and Yoga – These ancient tools help calm the mind, reduce emotional turbulence, and provide clarity.
- Set Boundaries with Family Interference – Whether it’s in-laws or parents, learning to set boundaries can prevent external interference from damaging the marriage.
- Accept That Not All Marriages Work Out – If a relationship is beyond repair, walking away is always an option. But it should be the last resort, not the first impulse.
- Focus on Personal Growth – Instead of drowning in misery, invest time in self-improvement, career, hobbies, and friendships. A failed marriage is not the end of life.
Conclusion
It’s truly saddening to see people ending their lives over relationship troubles. No one—no spouse, no in-law, no society—is worth giving up one’s life for. In Bharat, marriages are failing not just because of the couple but due to family interference, societal expectations, and a lack of emotional resilience. Instead of succumbing to despair, we must find ways to navigate these challenges—whether through inner strength, spiritual practices, or seeking support.
Suicide is never the answer. Life always gives second chances, but only to those who choose to stay and fight.